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Tuesday, July 26, 2011

So True...


This needs to be the Republican motto in the 2012 election campaign!  Race is not the issue; competence is.


I  worked at Republic Steel for 10 years, until its closing in 1983.
The best line I ever heard there was when this young black kid was being reprimanded for the last time.

The black youth said to the shop foreman, "You're firing me because I'm black!"

The boss said, "No, we hired you because you were black. We are firing you because you are useless!"

Same goes for the President of the United States..

Thursday, February 3, 2011

A Great Story

Carl was a quiet man. He  didn't talk much.
He would always greet you with a big  smile and a firm handshake. 
  
Even after  living in our neighborhood for over 50 years, no one  could really say they knew him very well. 
       
Before his retirement, he took the bus to work each morning.
The lone sight of him walking down the street often worried  us. 
       
He had a  slight limp from a bullet wound received in WWII. 
       
   
Watching him,  we worried that although he had survived WWII, he may  not make it through our changing uptown neighborhood with its  ever-increasing random violence, gangs, and drug  activity. 
       
   
When he saw  the flyer at our local church asking for volunteers for caring  for the gardens behind the minister's residence, he responded in his characteristically unassuming manner. Without fanfare, he  just signed up. 
       
He was well  into his 87th year when the very thing we had always feared  finally  happened. 
       
He was just  finishing his watering for the day when three gang members  approached him.
Ignoring their attempt to intimidate  him, he simply asked, "Would you like a drink from the  hose?" 
       
The tallest  and toughest-looking of the three said, "Yeah, sure," with a  malevolent little  smile. 
       
As Carl  offered the hose to him, the other two grabbed Carl's arm, throwing him down.
As the hose snaked crazily over the  ground, dousing everything in its way, Carl's assailants  stole his retirement watch and his wallet, and then  fled. 
       
Carl tried to  get himself up, but he had been thrown down on his bad  leg.
He lay there trying to gather himself as the  minister came running to help  him. 
       
Although the  minister had witnessed the attack from his window, he couldn't get there fast enough to stop  it. 
       
"Carl, are you  okay? Are you hurt?" the minister kept asking as he helped Carl  to his  feet. 
       
Carl just  passed a hand over his brow and sighed, shaking his head.
 "Just some punk kids. I hope they'll wise-up  someday." 
       
His wet  clothes clung to his slight frame as he bent to pick up the hose.
He adjusted the nozzle again and started to  water. 
       
Confused and a  little concerned, the minister asked, "Carl, what are you  doing?"
"I've got to finish my watering. It's been very  dry lately," came the calm  reply. 
       
Satisfying himself that  Carl really was all right, the minister could only  marvel.
Carl was a man from a different time and  place. 
       
A few weeks  later the three returned. Just as before their threat was  unchallenged.
Carl again offered them a drink from his  hose.
       
This time they  didn't rob him.
They wrenched the hose from his hand  and drenched him head to foot in the icy  water. 
       
When they had  finished their humiliation of him, they sauntered off down  the street, throwing catcalls and curses, falling over one  another laughing at the hilarity of what they had just done. 
       
Carl just  watched them.
Then he turned toward the warmth giving  sun, picked up his hose, and went on with his  watering.
       
The summer was  quickly fading into fall Carl was doing some tilling when he was  startled by the sudden approach of someone behind  him.
He stumbled and fell into some evergreen  branches. 
       
As he  struggled to regain his footing, he turned to see the tall leader of his summer tormentors reaching down for him. He braced  himself for the expected  attack. 
       
"Don't worry  old man, I'm not gonna hurt you this  time." 
       
The young man spoke  softly, still offering the tattooed and scarred hand to Carl. As  he helped Carl get up, the man pulled a crumpled bag from his  pocket and handed it to  Carl. 
       
"What's  this?" Carl asked. "It's your stuff," the man  explained. "It's your stuff back.
Even the money in  your wallet."
"I don't understand," Carl said. "Why would  you help me  now?" 
       
The man  shifted his feet, seeming embarrassed and ill at ease. "I learned something from you," he said. "I ran with that gang and  hurt people like you we picked you because you were old and we  knew we could do it but every time we came and did something to  you, instead of yelling and
fighting back, you tried to give us  a drink. You didn't hate us for hating you. You kept showing  love against our  hate." 
       
He stopped for  a moment. "I couldn't sleep after we stole your stuff, so here  it is  back." 
       
He paused for  another awkward moment, not knowing what more there was to say.  "That bag's my way of saying thanks for straightening me out, I guess." And with that, he walked off down the  street. 
       
Carl looked  down at the sack in his hands and gingerly opened it. He took  out his retirement watch and put it back on his wrist. Opening  his wallet, he checked for his wedding photo. He gazed for a  moment at the young bride that still smiled back at him from all  those years  ago. 
       
He died one cold day after Christmas that winter. Many people attended his  funeral in spite of the  weather. 
       
In particular  the minister noticed a tall young man that he didn't know  sitting quietly in a distant corner of the church. 
       
The minister spoke of Carl's garden as a lesson in  life. 
       
    
In a voice made  thick with unshed tears, he said, "Do your best and make your  garden as beautiful as you can. We will never forget Carl and his  garden." 
       
The following  spring another flyer went up. It read: "Person needed to care  for Carl's  garden." 
       
The flyer went  unnoticed by the busy parishioners until one day when a knock  was heard at the minister's office  door. 
       
Opening the  door, the minister saw a pair of scarred and tattooed hands  holding the flyer. "I believe this is my job, if you'll have  me,"
the young man  said. 
       
The minister  recognized him as the same young man who had returned the stolen  watch and wallet to  Carl. 
       
He knew that  Carl's kindness had turned this man's life around. As the  minister handed him the keys to the garden shed, he said, "Yes,  go take care of Carl's garden and honor  him." 
       
The man went  to work and, over the next several years, he tended the flowers  and vegetables just as Carl had  done.
       
During that  time, he went to college, got married, and became a prominent  member of the community. But he never forgot his promise to Carl's memory and kept the garden as beautiful as he thought  Carl would
have kept  it. 
       
One day he  approached the new minister and told him that he couldn't care  for the garden any longer. He explained with a shy and happy smile, "My wife just had a baby boy last night, and she's  bringing him home
on  Saturday." 
       
"Well,  congratulations!" said the minister, as he was handed the garden  shed keys. "That's wonderful! What's the baby's name?" 
       
"Carl," he  replied. 
       
That's the  whole gospel message simply  stated.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

I Believe

                                A Birth Certificate shows that we were born.
                                A Death Certificate shows that we died 
                                Pictures show that we lived! 

                                Have a seat . Relax . .  
                                And read this slowly.

                                I Believe... 
                                That just because two people argue, 
                                It doesn't mean they don't love each other. 
                                And just because they don't argue, 
                                It doesn't mean they do love each other. 
                                  
                                I Believe...
                                That we don't have to change friends if 
                                We understand that friends change.
                                 
                                I Believe....
                                That no matter how good a friend is, 
                                They're going to hurt you every once in a while 
                                And you must forgive them for that. 
                                 
                                I Believe...
                                That true friendship continues to grow, 
                                Even over the longest distance. 
                                Same goes for true love. 
                                I Believe... 
                                That you can do something in an instant 
                                That will give you heartache for life. 
                                 
                                I Believe....
                                That it's taking me a long time 
                                To become the person I want to be. 
                                 
                                I Believe...
                                That you should always leave loved ones with 
                                Loving words. It may be the last time you see them. 
                                 
                                I Believe.... 
                                That you can keep going long after you think you can't. 
                                 
                                I Believe....
                                That we are responsible for what 
                                We do, no matter how we feel. 
                                 
                                I Believe...
                                That either you control your attitude or it controls you.
                                
                                I Believe...
                                That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs 
                                To be done, regardless of the consequences. 
                                
                                
                                I Believe....
                                That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. 
                                 
                                I Believe....
                                That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down 
                                Will be the ones to help you get back up. 
                                 
                                I Believe...
                                That sometimes when I'm angry 
                                I have the right to be angry,  
                                But that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. 
                                 
                                I Believe....
                                That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had 
                                And what you've learned from them and less to do with  how many 
                                Birthdays you've celebrated. 
                                  
                                I Believe...
                                That it isn't always enough, 
                                To be forgiven by others. 
                                Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself. 
                                 
                                I Believe...
                                That no matter how bad your heart is broken 
                                The world doesn't stop for your grief.. 
                                 
                                I Believe....
                                That our background and circumstances 
                                May have influenced who we are, 
                                But, we are responsible for who we become.
                                 
                                I Believe...
                                That you shouldn't be so eager to find 
                                Out a secret. It could change your life Forever. 
                                 
                                I Believe.....
                                Two people can look at the exact same 
                                Thing and see something totally different. 
                                 
                                I Believe....
                                That your life can be changed in a matter of 
                                Hours by people who don't even know you. 
                                 
                                I Believe....
                                That even when you think you have no more to give, 
                                When a friend cries out to you - 
                                You will find the strength to help. 
                                 
                                I Believe...
                                That credentials on the wall 
                                Do not make you a decent human being.
                                 
                                I Believe...
                                That the people you care about most in life 
                                Are taken from you too soon. 
                                 
                                I Believe...
                                That you should send this to 
                                All of the people that you believe in, I just did.
                                
                                 
    'The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; 
    They just make the most of everything they have.